余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 12:19

刘墉写给女儿交朋友的十五个叮咛

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YTMSA 发表于 2025-7-28 12:21

这个刘墉不是那个刘罗锅吧？这字倒是跟刘罗锅有的一拼！

别亦难 发表于 2025-7-28 12:23

学习了，下次谈恋爱用上。

余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 12:28

YTMSA 发表于 2025-7-28 12:21
这个刘墉不是那个刘罗锅吧？这字倒是跟刘罗锅有的一拼！

是一个作家大哥

余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 12:28

别亦难 发表于 2025-7-28 12:23
学习了，下次谈恋爱用上。

牛家卧 发表于 2025-7-28 12:29

嗯嗯，我先mark一下，回头认真学习，沉下心来好好学习，逐字逐句地认真体会。毕竟文字里藏着的不仅是字面意思，更有余老师落笔时的心境与未曾明说的深意，一点点啃，一点点品，直到这些句子不再只是纸上的墨迹，而是能变成往后想起时，心里泛起的一阵暖，或是脑中闪过的一道光。

YTMSA 发表于 2025-7-28 12:33

余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 12:28
是一个作家大哥

孤陋寡闻啦！
我寻思这刘墉咋这么开放呢？清朝就同意闺女自由恋爱！

YTMSA 发表于 2025-7-28 12:41

牛家卧 发表于 2025-7-28 12:29
嗯嗯，我先mark一下，回头认真学习，沉下心来好好学习，逐字逐句地认真体会。毕竟文字里藏着的不仅是字面意 ...

我对阁下的景仰有如滔滔江水,连绵不绝,又如黄河泛滥,一发而不可收拾,听阁下一言,胜读十年寒窗,看古近风流人物,还数阁下!能在此间见到您,真是小弟一生之荣幸,回家定要烧香祭祖,感谢先辈！

鸣谦 发表于 2025-7-28 12:44

大学的时候买过刘墉的书，叫我不是教你诈，没看几页，话说余老师一口气写这么多，挺费手的

余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 12:47

鸣谦 发表于 2025-7-28 12:44
大学的时候买过刘墉的书，叫我不是教你诈，没看几页，话说余老师一口气写这么多，挺费手的

这不是我的笔迹

余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 12:47

牛家卧 发表于 2025-7-28 12:29
嗯嗯，我先mark一下，回头认真学习，沉下心来好好学习，逐字逐句地认真体会。毕竟文字里藏着的不仅是字面意 ...

{:face_018:}

余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 13:51

YTMSA 发表于 2025-7-28 12:33
孤陋寡闻啦！
我寻思这刘墉咋这么开放呢？清朝就同意闺女自由恋爱！

尼莫的表哥 发表于 2025-7-28 13:57

过好自己的，不要听名人扯犊子，很多都是胡扯

行云何处去 发表于 2025-7-28 17:32

就一个原则，害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。

余笙 发表于 2025-7-28 17:56

尼莫的表哥 发表于 2025-7-28 13:57
过好自己的，不要听名人扯犊子，很多都是胡扯

对

不惑向天命 发表于 2025-7-28 18:46

刘墉的作品很多，读过《我不是教你诈》系列。

sense1982 发表于 2025-7-28 22:47

2001年同学介绍我看刘墉的书，当时基本把他的书全看了一遍，这一晃20多年过去了
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